I saw some Chinese growth charts on one of my Yahoo! groups, and after recently pulling them out to send to the mom of a little girl adopted the same day as Quinn, I decided to chart my little cherub. Before he came to us he was at about the 30th percentile by Chinese standards. Now he is at the 97th percentile for height and is OFF THE CHARTS for weight.
It's amazing what love and chocolate chip cookies can do for a boy...
I'm trying to figure out how to upload the PDFs - does anyone know how to do it??
My unvarnished story about adopting a boy who turned out to have autism.
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Monday, October 18, 2010
Sentences!!
Quinn is getting pretty good at two- and three-word statements without adjectives, adverbs or pronouns. And then all of a sudden today he has uttered THREE full sentences.
While driving: "Mama, yellow car on top wall." Sure enough, we were passing a car dealership with a yellow car on the roof.
While walking past the bookstore with the beloved spinning ball fountain near the front door: "Go see ball in wa (water)?
After lunch, when Baba and Mama were getting into separate cars: "Baba, get in Mama car."
Fluke or breakthrough? Time will tell. But boy am I a proud mama today!
While driving: "Mama, yellow car on top wall." Sure enough, we were passing a car dealership with a yellow car on the roof.
While walking past the bookstore with the beloved spinning ball fountain near the front door: "Go see ball in wa (water)?
After lunch, when Baba and Mama were getting into separate cars: "Baba, get in Mama car."
Fluke or breakthrough? Time will tell. But boy am I a proud mama today!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Potty training and the sensory-seeking kid
I've read over and over that when a child shows interest in the potty or discomfort at having a wet or dirty diaper, it's time to potty-train. As Quinn hasn't been in daycare where he needed to be potty trained, I really haven't worried about, figuring I'd wait for his cue.
But now that I'm learning about Sensory Processing Disorder, I'm realizing that cue may never come. He is PERFECTLY happy to spend the entire day in a wet diaper if I let him. He never complains about the feel, smell, whatever - in fact, he doesn't even seem to notice.
I got a little bench potty a few months ago, and while he loves to drag it all over the house and use it to step up to things he's not supposed to reach, he dislikes sitting on it. So I got him a potty seat that goes on top of the regular toilet seat. That he likes. He drags his potty bench over to it, steps up to sit on the potty and has a lovely time opening the little cubby door next to the toilet, unrolling the toilet paper, asking me to identify the fall foilage on the potpourri envelope. After a while he puts the potpourri back, closes the cubby door and says very cheerfully, "All done potty!" Then he hops down. NOT ONCE has he done anything in the toilet - and it's the same story at school, where he's taken to the potty each morning.
I'd love to hear any ideas, or things that worked for you!!
But now that I'm learning about Sensory Processing Disorder, I'm realizing that cue may never come. He is PERFECTLY happy to spend the entire day in a wet diaper if I let him. He never complains about the feel, smell, whatever - in fact, he doesn't even seem to notice.
I got a little bench potty a few months ago, and while he loves to drag it all over the house and use it to step up to things he's not supposed to reach, he dislikes sitting on it. So I got him a potty seat that goes on top of the regular toilet seat. That he likes. He drags his potty bench over to it, steps up to sit on the potty and has a lovely time opening the little cubby door next to the toilet, unrolling the toilet paper, asking me to identify the fall foilage on the potpourri envelope. After a while he puts the potpourri back, closes the cubby door and says very cheerfully, "All done potty!" Then he hops down. NOT ONCE has he done anything in the toilet - and it's the same story at school, where he's taken to the potty each morning.
I'd love to hear any ideas, or things that worked for you!!
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Future fashionista (fashionisto?)
Funny how I'm seeing everything through the Sensory Processing lens these days. About a month ago Quinn went from not liking the feel of anything soft to loving the feel of coats and blankets draped over him. He often pulls my coats out the closet to try on, and also likes to pull blankets off the bed and drapes off the wall, both of which make fine capes (and stangulation risks, I know!).
It's a little bit funny, a little bit odd, and very Quinn. The upside, beyond the amusing live performance: If he ends up becoming a fashion designer and/or auditioning for Project Runway, I have the perfect photos for his audition tape/book jacket/press kit. All he'll have to do is add a heartfelt, "I've loved fabrics since I was a toddler," and he's good to go!
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